Being an Asian girl along with my own experience tells a lot about my privileges and oppressions. The tradition which I grew up with gives me strong values of education and cultural manners, and it quips me with more confidence now when I go out of my area and I have more opportunities in my academic and career path. However, it also came with a lot of pressure under traditional Asian parenting style, high expectations from the family, society and even myself. In addition, as a woman, although we are able to be prioritized in many aspects and treated much softer than men, we are narrowed our opportunities in some specific fields due to the social expectations. These experiences are really useful to acknowledge that we all have several advantages in some specific aspects, but struggles can always happen.
Learning our own privilege is necessary because it can allow us to recognize the opportunities that we can utilize, and we do not need to feel guilty for the benefits coming from our identities. Moreover, there is also a need to identify your mistreatment as knowing what our oppression is can encourage us to discover ways to improve the problems, and it also reinforces our empathy to other people with similar backgrounds. Together, they two always coexist at the same time but might be in different ways.